Everlasting Confidence, Cont'd:

Everlasting Confidence, Cont'd:

Almost all straight single guys want to have the confidence to approach, meet, date, and seduce women. The mistake most guys make, is they think the answer lies in some kind of pick-up techniques. But pickup techniques and so-called pickup artist or PUA's are missing the point. It's all about what's in your head and gut.

Why? Because your appeal to women has less to do with being slick and entertaining than just exuding pure confidence. Confidence puts women at ease. Your nervousness is not putting women at ease, no matter how slick your pick up lines are. Women can sense that under the surface, something is amiss.

Yesterday, I said you should go out and find a woman to approach, and find out exactly what happens inside of your head. What do you say to yourself? What do you picture? If you haven't yet gone out and done this, do it now. Seriously.

If you've already done it, then you need to write down exactly what you noticed happening. Now, I want you to go out and find another woman to approach, and approach her. Is there consistency in what comes up for you? What exactly is happening that's stopping you?

Awareness is the first step to altering and changing and transforming that gut-level fear response. So, overturn that rock and look closely at what's underneath. It might not be comfortable and it might be scary, but it's time to shine the light of day on what's hiding underneath.

We'll take this a step further tomorrow, see you then.
David