Everlasting Confidence, Part III

Everlasting Confidence, Part III:

As I said yesterday, super confidence with women involves a comprehensive "inside and outside" approach. Today, let's talk about your insides. Of course, I'm not talking about your bones or other anatomical stuff inside your body, I'm talking about what happens in your head.

The gut-level fear reaction you have when you don't approach a woman, actually starts in your head. You're doing something in there. You're communicating to yourself in some specific way. You may not be fully aware of this happening because it may be happening very fast, automatically, below the level of your awareness.

As a start on this, go out somewhere in public you know you'll be able to see some attractive and desirable women. When you see a woman you'd like to meet, observe what happens inside of you. To force the issue, I want you to approach this woman. This is where you're going to uncover all the stuff going on inside - you'll notice that you start to say something to yourself, or pictures and/or movies flash through your mind.

This is the fertile ground of changing that automatic fear "no" response into something more useful, for example, super confidence with women.

Let's get more into your inner reactions and what to do about that tomorrow, see you then!
David