Getting The Attention Of The Woman You Want To Approach:

Getting The Attention Of The Woman You Want To Approach:

You don't exist. No, this is not an existential statement - what I'm saying is that the beautiful woman you want to meet or date or seduce or have a relationship with or just have coffee with does not know you exist. You are not on her radar screen.

You are going to have to make your existence known to her. How you do that is up to you, but there's 2 main ways:

1. The Indirect Approach:
This is where you exchange furtive glances at each other in a bar or a supermarket or a bookstore, or wherever you see her. Or if you're a kid, you tell your friends that you like her so that your friends will tell her friends and her friends will tell her. The indirect approach has it's merits, but frankly is the cowards way out.

2. The Direct Approach:
You get on her radar screen by walking up and opening your mouth and saying something to her. You ask her a questions, or you make a comment like giving a compliment of some sort, you just say "hi my name is ___". The direct approach offers instant gratification as you get a yea or nay right away, but it's the riskier method since you may get rejected.

Do you have an opinion about either of these approaches? Feel free to post them right here on my blog www.confidencenow.com/blog.

See you tomorrow,
David