Part IV: Using Online Dating Websites to Conquer Shyness, Fear of Rejection Around Women:

Part IV: Using Online Dating Websites to Conquer Shyness, Fear of Rejection Around Women:

When you go on your coffee meeting (notice I don't call it a date: this is not a date, this is nothing more than a meeting where you have a specific agenda) the hardest thing will be for you to maintain your focus.

You have to avoid the temptation to get lost in your usual way of behaving on "a date". Remember, this is not a date. Forget about trying to impress her, or trying to be entertaining, or trying to be anything. Your sole mission is simply to exude confidence, and that's it.

You may need to use my "hero process" which we've talked about before and which I've outlined in detail in my book "Super Confidence With Women". If you have "issues" that need clearing up, then you really should get that book.

But you don't need the book to do this coffee meeting, you just need to sit there and exude confidence. Consider this as the most unimportant meeting of your life, nothing here matters except focusing on exuding confidence. All other considerations just do not matter.

See you tomorrow!
David