Seduction of Beautiful Women... And The Crap In Your Head

Meeting and Seducing Beautiful Women... And The Crap In Your Head:

I coined the term "crap in your head" to stand for all the unproductive conversations we have with ourselves, picturing failure, and all the other ways we shoot ourselves in the foot and step on our own di*ks when it comes to approaching and meeting women.

We invent all kinds of things (crap) like "she's out of my league". Or "someone who looks like that must already have a boyfriend". Or, "I don't know what to say". Guys are very inventive when it comes to crap in their head. Some guys even imagine she'll call the police, pull out a gun and start shooting, or just toss her coffee in your face and laugh.

One way of looking at the crap in our head, is that we predict the future. We invent forecasts about what we think is probably, likely, or at least scary and not good.

Why do we guys do that to ourselves? Why wouldn't you approach a woman with the attitude that meeting you is the best thing that could ever happen to her? Look, unless you're a con man, psycho killer or other kind of scumbag, what's the worst that could happen? You're probably a good guy, right?

So, why the negative self-talk and negative pictures in your head about possible bad results? Since you can't really predict the future, why not picture success with her? Why not tell yourself she's lucky to even be talking to you?

By the way, if you really can predict the future, please contact me - we'll go to Vegas and make a fortune! ;-)

See you tomorrow (now, cut out that crap going on in your head!)
David