Teleseminar Topics You Most Want

Teleseminar Topics You Most Want:

What topics most interest you for a teleseminar?

Seduction? Super Confidence With Women? Gaining the courage to approach women without fear or hesitation? How to seduce women effectively? How to get phone numbers? How to keep the conversation going with a woman?

Feel free to post here, or if you want you can email me privately:
david@confidencenow.com

Dedicated to your having more confidence and success with women,
David Portney
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Attracting Beautiful Women With A Gimmick

Attracting Beautiful Women With A Gimmick:

Here's an "oldie but goodie" that always works in attracting the attention of women:

Wear some kind of jewelry or other obvious and noticeable something. The more "unusual" and interesting it is, the better. For example, some kind of necklace with an interesting and unusual symbol or attention-getting colorful stone or gem.

Ordinarily, such things can be seen as transparent and kind of "cheesy", but the bottom line is that it works.

It can be clothing or a hat, or even your shoes (women tend to notice these things) and you can tell a story about how you came to own the special something, it's origin, it's meaning, and so forth.

This actually works well, for example, I once was out at a Starbucks wearing a piece of jade carved into a yin-yang symbol, and I quickly landed me a beautiful woman - easily!

See you tomorrow,
David
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Why "Make Up Sex" Is Such Great Sex

Why "Make Up Sex" Is Such Great Sex!

When you're using the hidden forbidden keys to influence and persuasion to get what you want with women, one of the most valuable techniques is the "grabber-shocker", and is the same reason that make up sex is so great.

Make up sex is what follows a big blow-out argument fight. After the fight, you have passionate wild sex that blows your minds. Why is this sex so good?

It's because you've both stimulated the part of your brains that are responsible for extremely high sexual arousal. You want to use this fact to your advantage even when you're on a date. It's a little risky, but it works, and here' s how:

Simply make a shocking statement to her that you know she'll disagree with, then defend it against her arguments. Again, this is risky if you pick something that completely and totally violates her sensibilities, so don't go overboard.

Then as the argument continues, begin to come back to some kind of agreement and rapport with her - the net effect is that you've activated the part of her brain responsible for extreme sexual arousal, and she'll associate that arousal with being with you!

Use this technique along with the two techniques I revealed over the last 2 days, and you've got a one-two-three knockout punch!

See you tomorrow,
David
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The Universal Keys to Persuasion, and Seducing Women

The Universal Keys to Persuasion, and Seducing Women:

People have universal "buttons" that can be pushed, and that includes women, even the most beautiful woman is susceptible to easy influence if you push those buttons.

There is a true fact about people, and that is that they hate to be bored - people can adjust to all kinds of conditions, even horrible situations, but they simply cannot adjust to boredom. One place we see this truism, is when people retire, having nothing left that interests them, and shortly die.

This means that people absolutely love to NOT be bored. What's the opposite of boredom?-being entertained! Oh, no - does this mean you have to be entertaining? Not necessarily.

It's easy to "be entertaining" when you ask interesting questions! First, that takes the pressure off of you entirely, plus you can find out even more "hot buttons" - so just ask about the funniest movies she's seen, things she likes to do for fun, and so on.

By asking interesting questions, you are entertaining by letting her entertain herself! People love to talk about themselves, so your task is quite easy.

See you tomorrow,
David
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Seduction and the Hidden Keys to Persuasion

Seduction and the Hidden Keys to Persuasion:

Guys, let's face it: we're pretty simple creatures. We tend to be surface dwellers when it comes to wanting to get women into bed or a relationships or whatever. We tend to take the direct approach.

I even had an email recently from an obviously very smart, very intelligent young man doing well with the ladies who asked why a woman would "mess with his head" (my expression, not his, but basically correct...) when he set up the rules ahead of time with her.

It's because being forthright and up front is a bad idea. You're going to have to be a little more strategic in planning your seduction, and before you start dating is a good time to start. You need to use the hidden keys to persuasion, which we'll talk about next. Even the most beautiful women in the world are going to respond to these universal keys to persuasion.

See you tomorrow,
David

Taking It To The Next Level With A Woman

Taking It To The Next Level With A Woman:

Once you meet a woman, and are moving on to the seduction phase, what should you do to take it up to the next level?

Lots of times, guys want to look for "signals" from a woman that she's *receptive*. But one of the problems with that strategy is that assumes you'll actually be able to recognize her signals!

Women do give off signals, but they are often very subtle and guys typically miss them when they happen.

A better strategy is to set the tone and the mood, then just move in. Forget about watching for signals or that kind of thing. She may be sitting there wishing you'd make your move, but you're sitting there missing her signals!

See you tomorrow,
David

Part Twelve: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

Part Twelve: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

Talking about a movie, or TV program, or book or magazine article or blog post is the simplest and easiest way to fly under a woman's "radar" and lead her to the states of mind you want her to be in.

This simple but powerful technique works every time, every time, because of the simple fact that it's so common for people to talk about TV programs, movies, and so on. People do that every day of their lives, practically, so it's not going to raise any suspicions on her end.

Then, you just lead her into the state of mind you want her to be in as you tell her about the movie or TV program you saw, book you read, whatever.

Also, it's going to be extremely useful for you to get into that same state of mind too. People are very sensitive to the moods of others, so she'll pick up on your vibe.

I highly suggest that you practice this in conjunction with my previous post about using online dating services in order to arrange low-risk coffee dates to practice being confident, and you can also practice this technique at the same time.

Remember: everything seems a little unnatural the first time you do it, so don't let that stop you!

More tomorrow, see you then!
David
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Part Eleven: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part Eleven: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

I think you may have to really stop and let it sink in that the "golden rule" contains a secret to mind-control (see previous posts if you haven't already). At first glance the old "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" saying just seems like it's saying that if you want to be treated some certain way, you should treat others the same way.

That's EXACTLY what it's saying! But this applies to you leading a woman into feelings of sexual interest... in you.

Yesterday I said I'd tell you a quick, easy and 100% effective way to "fly under her radar" and lead her where you want her to be, and here it is: simply start a sentence with "the other day I was watching a TV program about (X), and they said..."

Simply fill in (X) with whatever you want. X could be human sexuality, or what causes attraction and desire in people, or different beliefs about courting and sex around the world. You can also replace "TV program" with magazine article, blog, website, movie, book, etc. This technique is extremely flexible, and works every time.

Try it out and tell me how it goes!

See you tomorrow,
David
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Part Ten: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part Ten: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" - we've all heard it. It's called 'the golden rule' and we all think we know what it means. But did you know you can control the minds of others with this simple advice?-such as a beautiful women you want to seduce?

Sex is very important to guys. Many guys are not sure how to get to "yes" with a women. Guys, being the logical creatures we are, tend to not realize that women are driven more by feelings and emotions than we are. All women? No way. Most women? Most certainly.

Let me put it this way: if you want to take someone somewhere, you have to go there with them. In fact, if you want to lead someone somewhere, you are in front and get there first. Get it?-you need to get into the mood you want her to be in before she's going to get into that mood.

Now, you may need to do this gradually. If you flash your bedroom eyes and sexy deep voice at some random woman in line behind you at the grocery store, it may be too much too soon (of course, it may work too! but that's another story....)

So when you're out on your date, you should gradually lead her to the state of mind you want her to be in. Would you like an extremely clever way to do this? One that allows you to "fly under radar" right into enemy territory undetected on your mission?

I'll tell you tomorrow! See you then,
David
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Part VI III: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part VI III: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

So, what did you come up with? How does "the golden rule" reveal a secret of mind control that you can use to seduce women?

If you've been reading every day now, then you'll be prepared for the answer. If not, be sure to go back and read the previous posts in this series.

"The golden rule", that old saying is - "do unto others as you would have them do unto you". Now, this saying embodies great wisdom on a number of levels. But until recently, I hadn't realized that it also contains a secret hidden method of controlling people's minds, and getting what you want from them.

Think about it: what is it that you want from a woman? For a lot of guys, they want sex. For a lot of guys, they want sex, but also some kind of relationship. For this discussion, let's use the sex example because that's what a lot of guys want as an end-result.

So, does "do unto others" mean you should just jump on her and rape her?-of course not. But in what frame of mind do most guys approach wanting sex when they're out with a woman?-from a powerless, practically begging position, or from a fake "I've got game" attitude. But does your "game face" or your begging demeanor jibe with a sexual vibe?

More tomorrow,
David

Part VIII: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part VIII: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

I had a bit of an epiphany recently. An insight into mind control and what makes us humans "tick". I want to share this insight with you right here on this blog.

And before I do, I want you to stop and consider something, and give me your feedback, your input, your thoughts and feelings.

There is an old saying you may have heard. This old saying is very well-known. And, it's my belief that most people have absolutely no inkling whatsoever that this old saying conceals one of the very deepest truths about controlling other people's minds.

You may want to go back right now and re-read parts 1-7 of this series before you consider this, and then come back here and re-read this post.

The old saying that conceals a truth about how you can use seduction, persuasion, influence and mind control techniques with women to get whatever you want is...

"Do unto others as you would have others do unto you".

Now, I already know what the popular, most-widely held interpretation is of this, but that interpretation has nothing to do with mind control.

Can you see the concealed mind-control information in the old saying? Post your thoughts and feelings and feedback and reactions right here on my blog.

More tomorrow, see you then.
David

Part VII: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part VII: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

Continuing in our mind-control theme of the last few days...

Because people tend to live in the past and the future, they tend to respond in the present based on their hopes and dreams, as well as their fears and dreads. This is an advantage to you, the male of our species who's horny and looking to hook up with beautiful women.

But, let me be clear: it's not only for drooling guys looking to score - this is for any guy that wants to be with women on any level, even a strictly platonic level that involves zero sex. Why? Because most guys go around scratching their heads wondering why women act the way they do, and wondering how to "steer" things in the direction you want things to go.

If you want to steer a woman toward being seduced by you and being sexual with you, you'll want to enter into her world and navigate inside of that world. If you just want to be friends, same thing. If you want to just date and see if you like her enough to perhaps get more serious with her, same thing.

And, if you're thinking it's somehow *wrong* to purposefully influence women, you need to wake up and realize that you're going to be influencing her with everything you do and say - so the question becomes, not are you going to influence her, but are you going to do it consciously with a specific goal in mind, or are you going to do it randomly, haphazardly with a fuzzy idea of where you're going?

Tomorrow we'll get into some more specifics about using mind control with women, see you then.
David

Part VI: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part VI: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

Did you find the hidden persuasion and influence info I referred to in my last post?

Here it is: we don't live in the present. Well, at least mostly we don't. You see, most people live in the past and the future. We're steered around by our memories of the past. Our past successes spur us forward, and our past failures haunt us. Our dreams of a brighter future also spur us forward, as do our fear and dread of future events that may or may not happen.

What the heck does this have to do with influence, persuasion, seduction, seducing beautiful women, etc.?

Well, here's the thing: when you realize that people generally "live" in their remembered past and their presupposed future, you gain a lot of leverage. But first you have to really "get" how true this is: look around you and find someone right now, and as you look at that person, you need to recognize that they have memories and they have imagined futures in mind.

This is where your ability to "control their mind" starts.

More tomorrow, see you then.
David

Part V: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part V: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

I admit that at first, due to my *need* to maintain personal integrity, I thought carefully about the idea of using mind-control techniques "on" unsuspecting women.

But you know what? The reality is that we all are always influencing and "controlling people's minds" whether we know it or not. And, usually we don't direct or control this influence on others - in fact, sometimes we cannot control that influence! For example, if you meet someone, and you just by coincidence happen to look like someone they were once in love with, that person is going to partly respond to the actual you, and partly respond to their memory of the person they remember. Just your face alone can influence people, even before you say a word. That means we are influencing people all the time, especially when we do open our mouth and speak words. So, right off the bat, *integrity* is not a problem unless you're just looking to use mind control techniques to fu*k someone over. Like any tool, the use of that tool is completely up to the user. A hammer can build a house to give people shelter, or it could crush someones skull. The hammer is not good or bad, it's just a tool.

In that last paragraph is the key to extremely powerful mind control techniques. Can you find it?

Tomorrow, I'll reveal it. In the meantime, see if you can find the mind control key above. See you tomorrow!
David

Part IV: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part IV: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

I can tell you more later about how I "came upon" the strategy I outlined for you in the last couple of blog posts, but basically I spent a lot of years (and a lot of money, frankly) studying and training with people in the mind control, hypnosis, and persuasion *community*. Much of what they taught me, they also taught with a lot of "use this stuff only for good, and not against other people's will" kind of messages, which I swallowed whole, being an integrity kind-of-guy.

But about 7 years ago, my thinking shifted slightly, and I began to think "hey, what good is all this influence and persuasion and *mind control* training I've taken if I'm not using it to control people's minds??"

In other words, I'd pretty much stuck with using all the techniques I'd learned only in business situations to create win/win outcomes - and with great success. So as I began to think about taking those techniques outside of the business world, the single question I asked myself was "what target group of people should I now *experiment* with?"

And, after thinking about it for like 5 minutes, I realized that it was females that should be the group. So, I began taking all those persuasion/influence/mind control techniques I had used successfully in business, and trying them out on unsuspecting females.

This proved to be even more fun than using these techniques in business!

More tomorrow.... see you then!
David

Part III: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part II: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

So the first step in our mind-control experiment in seducing women is to decide what mental/emotional state you want them to be in. We talked about that yesterday.

So once you've decided, how will you get her "there"?

You'll do it conversationally. I like bringing up common experiences we've all shared that contain those experiences - and specifically the experience we want her to be in right now. I like talking about movies - "have you ever seen...?" and start talking about someone in the movie who was horny, or whatever state of mind I want her to be in.

How hard is that? Pretty easy, really. Try it and let me know how it goes.

More mind control stuff tomorrow.

See you then!
David

Part II: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part II: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Because most people don't direct their internal states of feeling and emotion, you are in a position to direct their feelings and emotions for them.

This borders on mind control, if you really stop and think about it: if you have an interaction with some lovely female you'd like to spend more time with, you have a wide-open opportunity to direct her feelings and emotions.

Hey - that brings up a fun question: what feelings and emotions would you like her to feel when she's around you? Desire? Fun? Horniness? Attraction?

Have you ever stopped to ask yourself this question? This opens up a whole new world of opportunity for you! Besides, it also stops all the useless chatter and "crap in your head" like "I wonder if she likes me" "maybe she's out of my league" "she probably already has a boyfriend" and whatever other crap is crossing your mind.

Instead, what should be crossing your mind is "how to I want her to feel around me?".

Well, give me your ideas! Post them right here on this blog.

Tomorrow we'll talk more about how to direct her internal experience - first, decide what you want her internal experience to be!

See you tomorrow,
David

Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

As we began discussing yesterday, the great majority of people do not direct their internal state of mind, they don't control their feelings, they don't control their emotions.

Their feelings and state of being and emotional state is a result of random events outside of their control.

This is a huge advantage for you!
You can use this to your advantage in a major way. When you meet and start talking to some lovely woman you'd like to have something with (something is whatever you want - dating, sex, a relationship, whatever...) you should be directing her internal state and emotions!

How to do that. It's very simple. More on this starting tomorrow, see you then.
David

Seducing Beautiful Women In Their Imagination

Seducing Beautiful Women In Their Imagination:

Having studied influence & persuasion for sixteen years now has given me some keen insights into how to persuade and influence people in general, and of course females are people. He-he, for years when I was younger, I didn't realize females were just people too, but I digress.

In my book "Super Confidence With Women" I outline how it's true that most people do not decide how they feel. They let other people and circumstances in general dictate how they feel. For example, you drop the soap on your foot in the morning shower, then spill coffee on your shirt at breakfast, then head off to work or school and you forgot to take your important paperwork. "I'm having a bad day" you say to yourself.

Or let's say that you're driving and someone flips you off, showing you an angry middle finger. If you're like most people, you either laugh it off, it bothers you, or you get angry and show them the same finger. We mostly let outside circumstances decide for us how we'll feel, we don't make decisions about how we'll feel, we just get pushed around by what happens to us.

How does this apply to seducing beautiful women? Let's continue with this tomorrow.

See you then.
David
PS: be sure to check out my new software program that let's you practically "read women's minds" at www.ProfileHer.com

Cutting The Crap... In Your Head

Cutting The Crap... In Your Head:

Where did all that crap in your head come from?

Hard to say for sure. It may have come about from absorbing the beliefs of your parents, friends or others around you. Or it may have developed as a kind of survival strategy, in the sense that you might have told yourself certain things about the world (and females, especially) that somehow soothed you, and repeated that until it became a habit. Or it may simply be the result of imagining bad results.

I'm not a psychotherapist and don't pretend to be one. But frankly it doesn't matter where that crap came from. The only thing that matters is that it's stopping you from being more successful with women. And, it needs to go away.

But, before it goes away, you might as well enjoy it. Enjoy it?? That's right, enjoy it! Because once that crap is gone, it's gone.

So head out and find some nice, attractive women out there, and go meet them. Approach them. Ask her for a date, her phone number, out for coffee - and just enjoy all that crap that pops into your head.

See you tomorrow!
David

Seduction of Beautiful Women... And The Crap In Your Head

Meeting and Seducing Beautiful Women... And The Crap In Your Head:

I coined the term "crap in your head" to stand for all the unproductive conversations we have with ourselves, picturing failure, and all the other ways we shoot ourselves in the foot and step on our own di*ks when it comes to approaching and meeting women.

We invent all kinds of things (crap) like "she's out of my league". Or "someone who looks like that must already have a boyfriend". Or, "I don't know what to say". Guys are very inventive when it comes to crap in their head. Some guys even imagine she'll call the police, pull out a gun and start shooting, or just toss her coffee in your face and laugh.

One way of looking at the crap in our head, is that we predict the future. We invent forecasts about what we think is probably, likely, or at least scary and not good.

Why do we guys do that to ourselves? Why wouldn't you approach a woman with the attitude that meeting you is the best thing that could ever happen to her? Look, unless you're a con man, psycho killer or other kind of scumbag, what's the worst that could happen? You're probably a good guy, right?

So, why the negative self-talk and negative pictures in your head about possible bad results? Since you can't really predict the future, why not picture success with her? Why not tell yourself she's lucky to even be talking to you?

By the way, if you really can predict the future, please contact me - we'll go to Vegas and make a fortune! ;-)

See you tomorrow (now, cut out that crap going on in your head!)
David

Tuning Up Your Confidence With Women Safely

Tuning Up Your Confidence With Women Safely:

When you're out at the grocery store, or the post office, or out at the mall shopping or hanging out at the coffee shop or wherever - you have an opportunity to tune up your confidence with women.

What you want to do is make it a habit to talk to women around you. It doesn't mean you have to talk to each and every female you see. Here's what you should do - completely forget about picking up women, approaching them for dates or trying to seduce them - put all that kind of stuff completely out of your mind.

Then, just have some "safe" interactions with women - just say hi, or make a comment about the weather or give a compliment. The most important part is that you have absolutely no "investment" in the results. Many times guys get cold feet about approaching women because they feel invested in what she says or does. In this case you don't care at all what she says or does.

If she smiles, says bug off, says hello - it does not matter. Just interact with her, then forget about it.

Tomorrow let's talk about this a little more and take it a step or two further. If you'd like a full and complete outline of this and a whole lot more, be sure to check out my book "Super Confidence With Women" which you can get on Amazon.com or at www.ConfidenceNow.com.

See you tomorrow!
David

Tuning Up Your Confidence With Women

Tuning Up Your Confidence With Women:

It's called progressive conditioning by psychologists (and cult de-programmers).

In more simple terms, it's just getting used to something.

Anything you're not used to doing is not familiar, and usually somewhat uncomfortable, or even downright painful.

Tuning up your confidence "guitar strings" means that you need to be used to meeting women, talking to them, approaching them - all of that.

Women are everywhere: in malls, grocery stores, coffee shops, bookstores. You should take advantage of that to tune up your confidence. Get used to approaching women. Be friendly. Say hi. Strike up conversations. Give them compliments. Make a comment or ask a question.

Having regular "safe" interaction with a number of women really tunes up your confidence. Pick women you're not interested in to start. If you pick an unbelievably outrageously gorgeous woman, you might find yourself too intimidated to say a word. Start safe with women you're not interested in because you'll find them much less intimidating.

Tuning up your confidence is best done "inside and out", which I'll explain more about tomorrow.

Any questions or comments? Feel free!

See you tomorrow,
David

Keeping Your Confidence Tuned Up

Keeping Your Confidence Tuned Up:

Confidence is like guitar strings. You don't put guitar strings on a guitar, tune it up, then never have to tune up again.

The longer you leave your guitar lying around unplayed, the further out of tune your strings become. If you leave your guitar untouched for years, your strings will be way out of tune.

Confidence is like guitar strings: it's subject to the same detuning effect if you don't tune it up. People assume that confidence is a "thing" - we even say "I lost my confidence" as if we lost our wallet. But confidence is not a thing, it's a feeling, a sense of certainty about your identity or your ability.

That requires tuning, just like guitar strings.

More on this tomorrow, see you then.
David

Dating and Seduction - Ethiopian Style

Dating and Seduction - Ethiopian Style?

As I was saying yesterday, I have no idea how some different cultures "do" mating, dating, seduction, approaching, and so forth.

But I was sharing with you an email I received from a young man in Ethiopia - and I won't divulge anything that would compromise his privacy. If you were to email me, I would protect your privacy the same way.

And the thing that really hit home for me as I was reading his very personal email to me where he was talking about what's stopping him from meeting, dating, seducing, having relationships (etc.) with women, it struck me that we guys manage to shoot ourselves down no matter what culture we live in.

This young man explained exactly how he created feelings that made him feel inferior to other guys around him, resulting in him not taking action, and frankly (and without invading his privacy) suffice it to say he's been missing out on all the good stuff that being with women has to offer.

What culture do you live in? Any thoughts or feelings you want to add to this?

See you tomorrow,
David

Being Natural and Being "a Natural"

Being Natural and Being "a Natural":

I'm a big fan of human communication. I admit that I'm fascinated by the ways different groups and cultures communicate. Of course, this ties in very strongly with seduction, including approaching and meeting women, dating them, seducing them, having relationships with them, and so on.

I live in a Western culture, but I recently received an email from a fellow living in the country called Ethiopia. Now, here's the thing: I have no idea what cultural norms for communication exist there, and I have no idea how males and females court each other, how men approach women (for all I know, it's the women who approach men in that culture!) I just don't know what their cultural norms are. What's natural here may be totally unnatural there, and vice versa.

But you what? What we feel inside is universal. The fellow that sent me that email the other day (he had read my report "The Best Places to Meet Women") was telling me how my report really hit home for him, because he is so shy and realizes that he's been doing it to himself. He was telling me about what he felt inside and how it's been stopping him his whole life.

To be continued tomorrow, see you then!
David

Fighting and Seduction: What Do They Have In Common?

Fighting and Seduction: What Do They Have In Common?

Wow, I could write a whole book about that! But this is a blog and not a book, so I'll be (mercifully) brief!

Setting aside the obvious metaphors such as "winning" a woman's charms, we've been talking about techniques for seduction, and as you know, most guys will actually want to hide behind technique as a cover for a lack of self-confidence.

Put in the most brief and simple terms possible, technique is something you learn when you study martial arts, but ultimately you're studying technique not so that you have a bunch of techniques. We study technique and do repetitions in martial arts so that we understand the principles underlying those techniques!

That's what the fighting arts and the seduction arts have in common: you don't want to learn seduction techniques so that you have a bunch of techniques - you want to understand the principles that comprise those techniques.

Then, you're free of the limitations of technique, and, you aren't "stiff and rehearsed" - you can just flow naturally, and most women will instinctively "sniff out" whether you're in the flow or just trying to make them fit into a routine you're doing.

See you tomorrow,
David