Why Confidence Attracts Women Part I

Women are attracted to confident guys. No matter how you slice it, no matter how you look at it, no matter how you think about it or talk about it, women find a confident man attractive.

Confidence is almost like a love potion to women. Ask just about any woman what they want in a man and confidence with be one of the first things they say. Confidence will be on their list. It’s usually in the top five.

Why is that? Why is confidence so important to women?

Why do ladies find a confident man so attractive? Most guys can remember a time when they knew a lady who had two guys after her. One guy was the “good guy” and the other was the “bad guy”. The “good guy” was nice to her. The “bad guy” was… not so nice.

The good guy would take her out on nice dates to dinner and movies and buy her nice gifts.

The good guy would treat her well and be nice to her. But the good guy never got the “good stuff” he really wanted.

He never got her love or affection. No kissing, no touching, and certainly no sex.

Meanwhile, the bad guy was getting all the “good stuff” from her that the good guy wanted but wasn’t getting. The bad guy wasn’t taking her out on dates or buying her nice things.

In fact, the bad guy seemed to treat her badly. He even disrespected her. But, the bad guy was getting all her attention. The bad guy was getting affection, kissing touching.

And yes, the bad guy was getting all the sex too. But the good guy was GOOD for her. He treated her well. The bad guy treated her like dirt.

So why did she seem to prefer the bad guy? Now, some people say it’s because women want to be treated like dirt. Or they say that the “bad guy” is more exiting than the predicable, boring “good guy”.

But, the deeper reason has nothing to do with whether women want to be treated poorly or not; and the deeper reason has nothing to do with whether women want excitement in their life or not. The deeper reason has to do with confidence.

It’s simple: the “bad guy” exuded the confidence the “good guy” didn’t.

That’s why he “got the girl” and not the good guy. Confidence makes a woman feel good. When you have confidence, a woman feels good around you. She feels safe and protected.

She feels secure. Women like that feeling and want to feel that around you!

>Part II

Here's how to have all the confidence you could ever want!