How to Get a Girl to Like You -
The Best Places To Meet Women, Part I

Ask almost any guy, and chances are they have an opinion about the best place to meet and pick up women.

I often ask guys “where do you go to meet women?” and 9 times out of 10 they say something like ‘a bar or nightclub’.

Guys like to go out together and look for women, and they have the camaraderie and support of their other guy friends.

But places like bars and nightclubs have a lot of built-in problems. Major problems – and we’re going to talk about them and examine each problem one-by-one.

More importantly, we’re going to talk about how to solve those problems. We’re going to cover the major criteria for what makes a particular place a “best place” to meet women.

Sometimes, just a place all by itself can be an environment that is simply NOT conducive to your meeting women easily. One way to instantly reduce your fear of rejection is by being in a non-threatening environment where she – and especially you – feel comfortable and at ease. Before we look at those best places to meet women, let’s uncover the major problems with places like bars and nightclubs.

MAJOR PROBLEM NUMBER 1: THE PLAYER SYNDROME
Bars and nightclubs are usually filled with “players” who are on the prowl. That means the women there typically have their defenses up, making a successful approach VERY difficult.

If you’ve ever experienced the pain of approaching a women in a bar or nightclub – especially when she’s surrounded by all her friends – then you know what I’m talking about.

She might as well be wearing a suit of armor, her defense mechanisms are activated and in high gear. She sees you looking at her; she sees you walking over... RED ALERT: HERE COMES THE ENEMY! Her defenses kick into highest mode possible.

You feel like a Kamikaze pilot on a suicide mission: all your friends are watching, all her friends are watching. It feels like the whole world is watching!

You blurt out whatever you rehearsed or comes to mind… she blows you off and you end up walking away defeated, demoralized. AND WORSE – you take it personally. You beat yourself up inside, believing you’re not worthy.

But – it’s NOT your fault! You were doomed to failure from the beginning because bars and nightclubs have so many built-in problems when it comes to approaching women. It’s an environment that promotes the fear of rejection in guys. In other words, it wasn’t your fault: the game was rigged against you from the very beginning.

Here's the right ways to meet women - on your terms!