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MAJOR
PROBLEM NUMBER 2: HER FRIEND IN NEED IS A PEST INDEED
Most women don’t go alone to bars and clubs; they go out in pairs
and packs.
So there they are, sitting there looking so good – they’ve done
up their hair and makeup and are wearing a sexy outfit. A whole
group of them at a time.
Because women are usually in groups it’s very common that their
friends get in the way and ruin your approach, no matter how slick
or sincere you are. Her friends are whispering in her ear “don’t
go for that guy”.
The friends are always trying to protect against any male advances.
Have you ever noticed that? It seems like we guys try to HELP each
other meet the opposite sex, while her friends are doing everything
in their power to STOP us!
Guys even have strategies like “wingmen” that assist in the pick-up
process. Some guys even have complicated strategies like sending
one guy in before the group who acts like a complete a**hole, then
when the others come in they appear suave and sophisticated by comparison.
So the “a**hole” guy in a manner of speaking “takes a bullet for
the team”: by acting like a total jerk all the other guys are 007
James Bond suave by contrast. It’s a lot of work to gather a team,
assign roles, and expect everyone to do their part.
Lucky for you, there is an easier way – we’ll get to that in the
next part.
How to get rid of all the
stupid fears that stop you from approaching women:
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