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MAJOR
PROBLEM NUMBER 3: INTRODUCING YOUR COMPETITION
A huge disadvantage of trying to meet women at bars and nightclubs
is that women are comparing you to every other guy in the place.
If there is a guy there who is better dressed or better looking
than you – and there probably is – she’s going to be comparing you
to him. Competition just makes your chances worse...
Much worse.
And it just fans your fear-of-rejection flames. Unless you’ve been
blessed with Brad Pitt good looks chances are there’s plenty of
other guys there that are better looking and better dressed than
you.
That means at that exact moment you’re approaching her, she’s thinking
she should be doing better than YOU!
And remember, her friends are telling her that too! Approaching
women is stressful enough for most guys, and the last thing you
need is her comparing you to better looking, better dressed guys
around there.
To recap, the 3 major problems with trying to approach and meet
women in bars and nightclubs are:
1. Her defense mechanisms are on total red alert
2. Her pesky friends are going to thwart and ruin your efforts
3. She’s going to be comparing you to better-looking better-dressed
guys
WHAT IS THE SOLUTION?
If you want to go to places like bars and nightclubs to meet women,
fine. I have nothing against that. Just be realistic about the major
problems involved with trying to approach and meet women there.
Instead, what if you could meet women in places where she will
NOT have ANY defense mechanisms operating and she’s actually RECEPTIVE
to your approach?
And, what if you could approach her when she’s ALONE and talk to
her WITHOUT her friends there to get in your way and thwart your
efforts?
AND, what if you could meet them in a place where you will have
ZERO COMPETITION? Don’t you think that would increase your chances
dramatically?
Don’t you think that would also make you feel a lot more comfortable
and confident?
If you answered yes, congratulations because now you are beginning
to see the light!
How to transform shyness
& rejection fear into Super Confidence With Women:
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