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Lacking confidence, most guys are unsure about what to say to a woman after “hello”. So they think they need some kind of “script”. A script of what to say when they approach a woman and meet her for the first time. A script for what to say after that. In fact, one of the most common misconceptions that guys have is that there’s some “magic words” to get women to like you. That’s total BS! There are no magic words. There is no special script to get women to like you. There is no “one size fits all” speech you can memorize. Forget about scripts of what to say to women. The only reason you think you need a script, is because you’re nervous and shy and that makes your brain freak out and your mind goes blank. You think a script will “save you” somehow. But it won’t. It just won’t. What if you memorize some script and it doesn’t work? Or what if you forget your script? You’ll have a panic attack because you won’t know what to do or say next. Plus, if you’re following a script, then you’re stuck with it. You run the risk of coming across as phony and rehearsed. She’ll pick up on that. It will turn her off instantly. Here’s the true bottom line on why guys think they need scripts: if you see a woman you want to meet, and you have no confidence in yourself, then you have all kinds of questions and doubts in your mind that make you hesitate. You question all kinds of things – “maybe she’s out of my league”, “someone as beautiful as her probably already has a boyfriend”, “even if I do muster up the courage to approach her, what should I say after hello?” On the other hand, if you have super confidence, you don’t ask yourself all those questions. You go right up to her and talk to her about anything you feel like talking about. What to say truly just does not matter when you are confident in yourself. We’ll talk about that more in confidence 201. Super Confidence With Women is here:
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