Super Confidence With Women 201
The reality is that there is no script that can possibly cover
how to approach women in various places.
In other words, what you say to a woman you approach is going
to vary depending on where you are. If you’re in a nightclub, or
a party, or a coffee shop, a restaurant, a bookstore, a grocery
store, or at the library, what you say will depend on that context.
If you’re at the supermarket you’re not going to comment on how
loud the band is, as if you’re in a nightclub. That just makes sense,
right? If you’re in a bookstore, it’s natural to talk about books,
if you’re in the grocery store, it’s logical you’d ask her how to
properly pick out a ripe tomato, if you’re in a nightclub you might
comment on the band.
No matter where you are, you can compliment HER in some way as
an “ice breaker” by saying she carries herself well, has “good energy”
or you can make a funny comment about something that’s going on
in that context.
The bottom line is this: when you achieve your goal of super confidence,
you’ll be 100% clear about the fact that scripts are for guys that
have no confidence.
Wondering about what to say to her is just your fear, plain and
simple. If you think you need a script, that’s just a crutch. If
you think you need a script, it means you’re afraid there will be
an “uncomfortable silence”.
If you think you need a script, it means you’re still anxious,
scared, or even terrified. If you think you need a script, you simply
lack confidence in yourself. Scripts are just a crutch and a cover
for a lack of confidence – like a child’s security blanket.
As you become an adult, you don’t need a security blanket anymore.
In exactly the same way, as you become super confident you don’t
need “scripts” anymore. When you have super confidence, you frankly
don’t care about “what to say”.
In fact, when you become super confident, you’ll be asking yourself
NEW QUESTIONS: instead of asking yourself if you’re good enough
to talk to her, you’ll be asking yourself IF SHE’S GOOD ENOUGH TO
TALK TO YOU!
When you have super confidence, you won’t care about words. If
she’s a cold person, you won’t care. If she’s friendly, that’s fine,
but you still won’t care.
When you have confidence in yourself, you’re not worried about
or even thinking about “what to say”.
No, my friend, scripts are not what you need. In fact, you don’t
need any kind of crutch when it comes to confidence with women.
When you have super confidence, you don’t need any kind of crutch
at all.
Next time you see a beautiful woman you want to meet, here's what
I want you to do: look at her and ask yourself "I wonder if
she's good enough for ME?" - then remember these all-important
words: for every hot-looking woman there's at least one guy who's
tired of putting up with her crap!
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