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Dating
Asian Women means you'll have to know about the cultural differences
involved.
Some guys want to date Asian women because they find Asian women
attractive with their smooth skin and youthful appearance and exotic
looks, and other guys are looking for a more demur subservient mate.
But, if you really want to date Asian women, the first place to
start is by getting a working knowledge of her culture.
For example, dating Asian women that live in the U.S. presents
two specific groups: those who grew up here in the States, and those
who relocated here from their home country.
If you're dating an Asian woman that grew up in the US, she is
an American – her culture will be strictly a US based thing.
She'll have been much more influenced by her peer group than her
parents in terms of her behavior and attitudes. If want a woman
that will be demur and subservient, you're looking in the wrong
place.
And, if her parents were born here too then you've got a typical
American woman on your hands – if her parents were not born here,
then she's going to have at least some influence of her native culture,
but not 100%.
Now the next possibility is that she came here from her native
land – and if she grew up there, she's definitely going to have
been shaped by her native culture.
One of the main things you want to look for is if she grew up in
a very poor city or very poor village. If she grew up very poor,
and then moved to a Western country like the US, very often she'll
be extremely materialistic.
You may or may not want to be with a woman like that – she'll have
bad memories of being poor, and she can be very demanding of you
and expect you to provide her with a life of luxury.
Important: dating an Asian woman who grew up in her native land
can be a bit tricky culturally (which is why a lot of guys turn
to dating and matching services, see our article on Asian
Women Dating Sites) because some Asian cultures rarely date
outside their race.
Others do date outside their race but courting can be very different
than if you're dating a Western-raised women. You'll need to understand
that she probably won't seem as responsive as a Western-raised woman,
and you'll have to be more measured, steady and persistent both
in approaching her and in dating her.
Here's a complete system
to your total mastery of confident dating:
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