How to Get a Girl to Like You - Flirting 101

Flirting all starts with your attitude.

You want to take on a sense of playfulness and fun in order to be a good flirt. Women actually love to flirt, and they love flirting.

All women – single women, married women, young women, older women – they just love it when you flirt with them.

Flirting doesn’t mean you make some kind of adolescent remarks or comments. You can tease women but don’t be mean about it.

Some people talk about doing “negs” which means that you make a backhanded compliment like “I really like women with a couple of extra pounds” – of course she my one-up you and say “really? Well, I hope you get to meet some women like that!” and then you’re on your way, you’re both laughing and the flirting has begun.

So job number one is going to be your playful, fun – and maybe slightly sarcastically witty – attitude.

The next thing you want to do is think about what kind of props you can have and use that can get you some attention and are good conversation pieces. When I say props, I mean stuff like necklaces or watches or other items that will get attention and are something to talk about.

Now, I’m not really much of a jewelry or accessory kind of guy, really, but I went out and bought a cheap necklace thing that was a simple black string with a nice elegant piece of jade that was cut into a Chinese symbol for yin and yang with the I Ching symbols around it.

One time I was sitting in a Starbucks when all of a sudden an extremely beautiful blonde lovely (I always had a weakness for hot blondes) starting asking me all kinds of questions about it – where did I get it? Was it real jade? What do the symbols mean? – we talked for an a good 10 minutes having a lot of fun.

Then it was super easy to get her phone number, this lovely blonde became one of my favorite girlfriends for awhile! :-)

So remember – the most important thing is your attitude: all the cool props in the world won’t make up for a crappy attitude!

Go out and expect to have fun, and wear a prop so you have something to talk about because you can bring it up yourself – “I bet you were wondering how I got this shark tooth necklace aren’t you – well I was out surfing one day, and along came this shark…”

Got the idea?

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