The Basics of Effective Flirting

Flirting is a natural human behavior, but here's some tips to make sure your flirting effectively and not ruining your results:

Flirting Tip #1:

We guys are guilty of being very, very visual creatures.

When we see a girl we like or want to meet or date or that we find attractive, our heads spin around 360 degrees like Linda Blair in the movie "The Exorcist".

Cut it out: sure, she's dressed in a skimpy, tight outfit showing off her outrageously hot body - but she hates being stared at!

Staring, in the animal kingdom, is what happens right before an attack - so direct staring communicates danger to her.

Don't do that.

Flirting Tip #2:

Instead of staring, make playful eye contact with her.

What's playful eye contact? That's where you look and then look away, or you let her catch you looking at her sideways.

Looking at her sideways means you're not directly facing her - you're looking at her from the corner of your eyes "sneaking a peek" at her.

Let her catch you do that.

Then, let her catch you doing it again, this time with just a slightly longer look at her before she or you look away.

The third time you let her catch you with a sideways glance at her, make a playful or even bashful smile.

She'll find that cute and endearing.

Now that you've gotten some signals from her, it's time to approach her.

***By the way, don't rely on signals from women - you might not even see them because women can be very, very subtle with signals.

Flirting Tip #3:

By now you've been playfully catching her eye.

At the same time, you should be looking for something she has or is wearing that you can comment on or ask about.

She might be reading a book or have some jewelry you can comment on.

You can walk up and make an innocent comment or ask a question about what she's reading or wearing.

Flirting Tip #4:

In another article here we've talked about having a prop as a conversation piece - and the easiest prop is something you're wearing, like a necklace or piece of jewelry.

This gives her a chance to ask about it - "that's an interesting symbol on your necklace..." and you get to tell a story about how you came to own it, what the symbol means, and so on.

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