How to Approach Women
How to approach women without fear of rejection is a question guys
have been asking since probably the beginning of time.
But the question of how to approach women is usually looked at
from completely the wrong direction..
Here's our top tips go help you to approach women confidently and
without that nagging fear of rejection:
How to Approach Women Tip #1:
Most guys come at this problem from completely the wrong direction
- they look for "techniques" or pick up lines as the solution to
their problem. But relying on "techniques" or pick up lines is like
a child with a security blanket - if you forget or ruin your pickup
line, you'll panic and fall apart.
Forget about trying to solve how to approach women with pick up
lines.
How to Approach Women Tip #2
To approach women, you need to "get your head together" first.
We suggest that you ask yourself this question: "Is she good enough
for me to be wasting my time on?"
See - most guys freak themselves out and create an intimidating
situation by asking the wrong question - guys often say to themselves
"I wonder if she'll talk to me?"
You need to turn that around - is SHE worth YOUR time?
It's easy to see how that changes the situation, doesn't it?
How to Approach Women Tip #3
Play the numbers game - there's 2 important factors at work here:
1. The more women you approach, the more you'll see there's nothing
to be afraid of - it's just like when you were a kid and you grew
up enough to realize there really were no monsters hiding under
your bed.
2. The more women you approach, the more likely you are to be successful
- some women, let's face it, are going to be unfriendly no matter
what and that's not your fault. Don't take it personally because
they don't even know you! If you only approach a lot of women, your
chances of success increase dramatically!
How to Approach Women Tip #4:
Most guys think women are only impressed by good looks, fame, power,
or money.
But the reality is very different - women are always impressed
by a confident man who acts like he's in control.
When you approach women, what you say doesn't matter as much as
how you say it - be sure to stand up straight, talk slowly and calmly,
and don't make erratic fast-moving gestures or facial expressions.
That means you'll come across as calm, cool, collected, in-control,
and confident.
More
Tips On Becoming Calm, Confident, and in Total Control:
|