How To Get a Girl to Like You By Not Caring

There's an old ancient Chinese proverb: "If you seek a thing, seek then it's opposite".

Sound strange, doesn't it? Can't you just see it?-"how to get a girl to like you: don't want her to like you!"

Maybe on the surface that seems strange, but if we look deeper we find that there is real logic to this.

We have an expression here, maybe you have it there too: "the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence".

What do all these proverbs have to do with getting a girl to like you, anyway?

Simple: in many cases you need to be a "don't wanter" - or maybe better put, when it comes to how to get a girl to like you, you need to be a "don't want-HER"!

What does being a "don't want-her" mean?

It means that you're going to contribute to your ultimate success in "getting her" if you're not overly-attached to your goal.

As the ancient Chinese proverb goes "seek it's opposite".

So does that mean you should do everything in your power to make her hate you, rather than fall in love with you?

No, not really. Because as opposed to what most people think, hate is not the opposite of love.

Then what IS the opposite of love?

Indifference! You need to be indifferent to whether she likes you or not.

When it comes to how to get a girl to like you, here's a weird and paradoxical truth: the less you care, the more you increase your chances.

I know, sounds like BS. We're somehow taught all of our lives that it's only through intense passion and desire that we can achieve what we want in life.

Let's put all speculation aside and "get the rubber on the road": Have you got that specific girl you're just dying to "make yours" and get her to like you or even love you? - then pursue her with all your might.

Obsess over her, shower her with attention and even gifts to get her to like you... ...how well is that working for you?

Not so great, right? In fact you've probably seen other guys try that strategy, and they got pissed on, right?-and then she slept with some loser-guy who treated her like dirt, right?

Chicks dig a challenge.

If you're "easy pickings" there's no challenge.

Besides that, chicks have radar: they can sense desperation a mile away... it's as if they can smell it. And, it turns them off.

Okay, now try the opposite approach: what if you were approaching here with a "I don't care" attitude - complete and total indifference, what happens?

She's lying there alone at night thinking about you, you mysterious man you... she can't figure you out.

While other guys are drooling over her, undressing her with their eyes, hitting on her all the time... you are not that way... ...she's intrigued. And because she's thinking about you, she's on the inevitable path to liking you as she thinks more and more about you, trying to figure you out. You're a mystery to be solved.

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