How to Get a Girl to Notice You
Next time you get a chance, watch little boys on a school yard
try to get the attention of the girls.
You'll see the boys jumping off the highest monkey bars trying
to impress the girls and other immature behavior trying to get the
girls' attention.
Unfortunately, many guys don't seem to grow out of this mentality
and think they have to impress girls somehow to get noticed.
There's nothing wrong with impressing girls per se, but you've
got to understand that what YOU think will impress a girl is not
necessarily what will get her to notice you.
Now that you're grown up, you've got to go about things a different
way. Here's our top tips to get a girl to notice you:
Tip #1:
Wear something interesting and fairly obvious that can be a conversation
starter.
You don't have to go overboard and dye your hair red, try an interesting
piece of jewelry you're wearing - girls notice those things.
Tip #2:
Learn to flirt. Read all of the articles
and tips on flirting on this site.
Tip #3:
Here's a metaphor for you: "Find out where the busiest streets
are and put your business there if you want to get your store noticed".
You're not opening a business, but you want to get noticed, right?
Then go where the girls are!
Think about the yoga or dance classes or shopping malls or anyplace
you can think of where girls hang out.
GO THERE!
Tip #4:
Develop a strong, noticeable aura of confidence.
In poll after poll and survey after survey, girls say that they
notice and are attracted to a guy that exudes confidence.
Confidence is something that attracts women like bees to honey!
Here's exactly what to do to exude an aura of confidence:
Lean back, not forward.
Stand up stick straight, don't slouch or slump.
Speak slowly, not quickly.
Don't have a goofy, awkward, nervous laugh.
Gesture slowly - never erratically - or not at all.
Keep your face calm and don't make a lot of erratic facial expressions.
Don't speak with a high squeaky voice - slow down and allow your
voice to naturally boom from your lungs and belly instead of talking
through your nose or just from your throat.
Now you're going to get noticed, and in a very, very good way!
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