How To Talk To Girls

How To Talk To Girls? It's Not As Hard As You Think, Here's 7 Tips To Make It Easier To Talk To Girls

How To Talk To Girls Tip #1:

Be yourself. That means be relaxed and don't try to "be something" for her that you think you should be or that you think she wants you to be.

She'll sense your phoniness in a heartbeat.

Plus, even if she doesn't sense your phoniness, how long can you keep up the charade?

Keeping up appearances takes too much energy and is a waste of time.

How To Talk To Girls Tip #2:

Don't be yourself.

Wait a second, did you read tip #1?-isn't this a blatant contradiction?

Actually, no - and here's why:

You are probably nervous about talking to girls or else you wouldn't be reading this article.

So if you want to follow tip #1 and be relaxed and not act phony, how can you do that when you're nervous as hell around girls and can barely think or talk around girls you're attracted to?

The answer here is that you want to "borrow" someone else's sense of confidence.

Emulating confidence is not the same as being phone or not being yourself - you're just using the same process of behavior acquisition you used to get all your current behaviors.

So why swim upstream and against the current?

Make it easy on yourself, borrow (emulate) someone else's confidence so you won't be so nervous.

How To Talk To Girls Tip #3:

Don't talk to girls. Ha, you must think that's a joke, but it's not - yes I'm trying to be amusing but here's the point:

Let HER do the talking!

Girls love to talk, so why not use that to your advantage?

How do you get her to talk?

Simple! Ask questions.

Ask her about whatever, but here's a tip on this - keep the subjects and your tone positive and not negative.

How To Talk To Girls Tip #4:

Don't gesture a lot.

Lot's of erratic gestures conveys nervousness.

Don't do that.

How To Talk To Girls Tip #5:

Lean back and stand up straight.

Obviously not at the same time!

If you're standing, stand up straight and tall.

If you're sitting, don't lean forward, lean back.

All of that conveys an aura of being calm, centered, confidence, in command, in control.

Girls like that.

How To Talk To Girls Tip #6:

Don't make a lot of erratic facial expressions.

Same as tip #4 - erratic facial expressions convey nervousness.

Don't do that.

How To Talk To Girls Tip #7:

Watch funny movies and standup comedians on TV, YouTube, DVD's - you get the idea.

The more funny stuff you watch, the more funny quotes you can make, the more funny routines you can quote (or pretend you invented!).

Expose yourself to comedy on a regular basis and it'll make you funnier as a result.

Girls love to talk to someone that makes them laugh, and she'll see you as someone she likes to be around.

And, being funnier increases your confidence making you feel more relaxed and at ease talking to girls.

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