Monday, January 21, 2008

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women and the 4 Core Personality Traits

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women and the 4 Core Personality Traits:

After "Need", the next of the 4 Core Personality Traits is "Drive", and just like Need, Drive comes in a pair of 2 polar opposite extremes.

Today we'll discuss the first extreme of the Drive Core Personality Trait, which is "Rational Drive".

A Rational Drive woman is going to expect you to make sense. She's going to expect you to display a certain and definite measure of logic in your thinking and in your actions. She's also going to be put off by displays of emotion. If you're a guy who has a lot of emotional outbursts and a flair for the dramatic, you're going to scare her away fast.

Lucky for you, most guys lean toward being more logical than not. But, even very logical guys sometimes have this whole unexpressed emotional side to them and they have these huge emotional displays of anger, frustration, or even wimpy, sappy "but I LOVE you so much, why are you being this way??" kind of drama.

Leave that drama at the curb, or you'll be kicked to the curb.

The Rational Drive woman will seem distant and even seem cold. She will enjoy having conversations about real subjects like history, politics, and philosophy, and will usually display a certain measure of disdain for shallow subjects like who's wearing what, and what happened on the latest episode of American Idol.

But don't let the "cold, distant" demeanor fool you: this woman is usually nowhere near being a cold fish, and once you impress her with your logic and intelligence, she'll be putty in your hands. However, play it wrong with this one, and you're history.

Tomorrow we're going to talk about the other side of "Drive" and continue with The 4 Core Personality Traits - you won't want to miss this!

Dedicated to maximizing your confidence and success in dating and seducing women.
David
PS: Want to be able to know precisely which of the 4 Core Personality Traits a woman has, and how they combine to create her exact personality so you can practically read her mind? Then click here right now.

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Friday, January 18, 2008

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women, and the 4 Core Personality Traits:

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women, and the 4 Core Personality Traits:

Yesterday we talked about "Open Need", today we'll talk about "Closed Need".

A closed need woman is going to demand that you're punctual and on time. She won't SAY this to you, she'll be silently judging you by your actions. If you're late to even one date, you're history. If you say you're going to do something and you don't do it, you're history.

A closed need woman does not like spontaneity; if you take her out on a date, you had better tell her in advance what the plan is - exactly. A closed need woman does not like "just whatever whenever" and if you are a "whatever/whenever" person, you're going to have to adjust yourself i you expect to be with this woman.

In the extreme, a closed need woman will seem picky and demanding. You had better understand her closed need personality if you want her to like you and want to be around you, much less sleep with you or have a relationship with you.

Tomorrow we're going to talk about another one of the 4 Core Personality Traits - you won't want to miss this!

Dedicated to maximizing your confidence and success in dating and seducing women.
David
PS: Want to be able to know precisely which of the 4 Core Personality Traits a woman has, and how they combine to create her exact personality so you can practically read her mind? Then click here right now.

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Saturday, November 10, 2007

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women, Super Confidence... and Guitar Strings??

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women, Super Confidence... and Guitar Strings??

There is no such thing as confidence. That is, confidence is not a thing we can pass around like we can pass around a bottle of tequila. Of course, a lot of guys do use alcohol as their confidence crutch. But overall you're better off if you can develop your super confidence with women without alcohol.

Why? Simple - because you might not be drunk every time you see a woman you want to approach! For example, when I'm in my favorite supermarket filled with beautiful women I want to meet and seduce, I'm not drunk at the time.

Anyway, confidence is like a guitar string. Now, maybe you don't play guitar, but if you ever have played a guitar or seen someone play, you know that guitar strings go out of tune and have to be tuned up, right? You don't just tune them once and they're tuned forever, true?

Super confidence with women is a lot like guitar strings - you've got to tune 'em up!

More tomorrow, see you then.
David

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Monday, November 05, 2007

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women... and Grandpa Simpson??

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women... and Grandpa Simpson??

How does Grandpa Simpson figure in to this equation? Or even that sentence??

There's an episode of The Simpsons where Grandpa Simpson becomes smitten with a new resident at the retirement home. He wants to ask her out, and when he gets his chance, he bumbles and mumbles trying to ask her out. After a few botched lines he mutters to himself, "This just never gets any easier, does it?!!"

As in much of the humor on that smash-hit show, there is an underlying truth: most guys never get over that nervousness, hesitation, awkwardness and fear. Can you imagine being, like, 70 years old and you've never gotten over that? And hey, sorry to hit you with this, but when you're 70 you had better be pretty darn rich if you expect to land any young beautiful women!

So with all that in mind, are you now going to start taking this seriously? Taking what seriously, you ask? Taking seriously what I've been harping on almost all last week - you have GOT to get out there, approach a few women, and be painfully aware of all the fear triggers you have.

More importantly, you have got to uncover exactly what form those fear triggers take - what do you say to yourself, picture in your head before you feel that fear feeling? You will never develop the ability to have confidence around women otherwise, and no amount of pick up artist techniques or seduction science is going to make the difference - just ask Grandpa Simpson!

See you tomorrow,
David

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