Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women and the 4 Core Personality Traits

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women and the 4 Core Personality Traits:

After "Need", the next of the 4 Core Personality Traits is "Drive", and just like Need, Drive comes in a pair of 2 polar opposite extremes.

Today we'll discuss the first extreme of the Drive Core Personality Trait, which is "Rational Drive".

A Rational Drive woman is going to expect you to make sense. She's going to expect you to display a certain and definite measure of logic in your thinking and in your actions. She's also going to be put off by displays of emotion. If you're a guy who has a lot of emotional outbursts and a flair for the dramatic, you're going to scare her away fast.

Lucky for you, most guys lean toward being more logical than not. But, even very logical guys sometimes have this whole unexpressed emotional side to them and they have these huge emotional displays of anger, frustration, or even wimpy, sappy "but I LOVE you so much, why are you being this way??" kind of drama.

Leave that drama at the curb, or you'll be kicked to the curb.

The Rational Drive woman will seem distant and even seem cold. She will enjoy having conversations about real subjects like history, politics, and philosophy, and will usually display a certain measure of disdain for shallow subjects like who's wearing what, and what happened on the latest episode of American Idol.

But don't let the "cold, distant" demeanor fool you: this woman is usually nowhere near being a cold fish, and once you impress her with your logic and intelligence, she'll be putty in your hands. However, play it wrong with this one, and you're history.

Tomorrow we're going to talk about the other side of "Drive" and continue with The 4 Core Personality Traits - you won't want to miss this!

Dedicated to maximizing your confidence and success in dating and seducing women.
David
PS: Want to be able to know precisely which of the 4 Core Personality Traits a woman has, and how they combine to create her exact personality so you can practically read her mind? Then click here right now.

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women, and the 4 Core Personality Traits:

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women, and the 4 Core Personality Traits:

Yesterday we talked about "Open Need", today we'll talk about "Closed Need".

A closed need woman is going to demand that you're punctual and on time. She won't SAY this to you, she'll be silently judging you by your actions. If you're late to even one date, you're history. If you say you're going to do something and you don't do it, you're history.

A closed need woman does not like spontaneity; if you take her out on a date, you had better tell her in advance what the plan is - exactly. A closed need woman does not like "just whatever whenever" and if you are a "whatever/whenever" person, you're going to have to adjust yourself i you expect to be with this woman.

In the extreme, a closed need woman will seem picky and demanding. You had better understand her closed need personality if you want her to like you and want to be around you, much less sleep with you or have a relationship with you.

Tomorrow we're going to talk about another one of the 4 Core Personality Traits - you won't want to miss this!

Dedicated to maximizing your confidence and success in dating and seducing women.
David
PS: Want to be able to know precisely which of the 4 Core Personality Traits a woman has, and how they combine to create her exact personality so you can practically read her mind? Then click here right now.

Setting The Record Straight About Mind Control, Seduction, and Sex

Setting The Record Straight About Mind Control, Seduction, and Sex:

I'll admit that the first time I even considered the idea of using mind control techniques (ahem - persuasion and influence techniques...) "on" women, I thought it seemed sneaky at the least, and downright sleazy at the worst.

I was wrong.

From the very first time a child first tries to play one parent against the other over their bedtime or to get a new toy, we are all trying to control other people's minds. I don't care how to try to spin it or slice it, we're all trying to get what we want using mind control techniques.

The sooner you admit this, the better off you'll be because then you can set about being better at mind control.

Go ahead: resist it for now. You'll come around. You'll get off your high horse when you realize that all your moral positioning is not getting you laid. Eventually, your hormones will overcome your frontal cortex anyway. Spare yourself a whole lot of wasted time. Some of you have quite cleverly pointed out the many ways I teach you *sneaky* subtle-yet-powerfully-effective mind control techniques in my book Super Confidence With Women - nice going, you make me proud.

Now get out there are start controlling her mind. 2008 is going by fast!

Dedicated to your confidence and success with women!
David

Part Twelve: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

Part Twelve: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

Talking about a movie, or TV program, or book or magazine article or blog post is the simplest and easiest way to fly under a woman's "radar" and lead her to the states of mind you want her to be in.

This simple but powerful technique works every time, every time, because of the simple fact that it's so common for people to talk about TV programs, movies, and so on. People do that every day of their lives, practically, so it's not going to raise any suspicions on her end.

Then, you just lead her into the state of mind you want her to be in as you tell her about the movie or TV program you saw, book you read, whatever.

Also, it's going to be extremely useful for you to get into that same state of mind too. People are very sensitive to the moods of others, so she'll pick up on your vibe.

I highly suggest that you practice this in conjunction with my previous post about using online dating services in order to arrange low-risk coffee dates to practice being confident, and you can also practice this technique at the same time.

Remember: everything seems a little unnatural the first time you do it, so don't let that stop you!

More tomorrow, see you then!
David
PS: be sure to get your own copy of "Super Confidence With Women" right away!

Part Eleven: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part Eleven: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

I think you may have to really stop and let it sink in that the "golden rule" contains a secret to mind-control (see previous posts if you haven't already). At first glance the old "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" saying just seems like it's saying that if you want to be treated some certain way, you should treat others the same way.

That's EXACTLY what it's saying! But this applies to you leading a woman into feelings of sexual interest... in you.

Yesterday I said I'd tell you a quick, easy and 100% effective way to "fly under her radar" and lead her where you want her to be, and here it is: simply start a sentence with "the other day I was watching a TV program about (X), and they said..."

Simply fill in (X) with whatever you want. X could be human sexuality, or what causes attraction and desire in people, or different beliefs about courting and sex around the world. You can also replace "TV program" with magazine article, blog, website, movie, book, etc. This technique is extremely flexible, and works every time.

Try it out and tell me how it goes!

See you tomorrow,
David
PS: If you don't already have it, check out my book "Super Confidence With Women" at www.ConfidenceNow.com - it has all kinds of terrific tools, tips and techniques for you to conquer shyness and fear of rejection and be a "seduction natural" instead of a "game faced wanna-be".

Part Ten: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part Ten: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" - we've all heard it. It's called 'the golden rule' and we all think we know what it means. But did you know you can control the minds of others with this simple advice?-such as a beautiful women you want to seduce?

Sex is very important to guys. Many guys are not sure how to get to "yes" with a women. Guys, being the logical creatures we are, tend to not realize that women are driven more by feelings and emotions than we are. All women? No way. Most women? Most certainly.

Let me put it this way: if you want to take someone somewhere, you have to go there with them. In fact, if you want to lead someone somewhere, you are in front and get there first. Get it?-you need to get into the mood you want her to be in before she's going to get into that mood.

Now, you may need to do this gradually. If you flash your bedroom eyes and sexy deep voice at some random woman in line behind you at the grocery store, it may be too much too soon (of course, it may work too! but that's another story....)

So when you're out on your date, you should gradually lead her to the state of mind you want her to be in. Would you like an extremely clever way to do this? One that allows you to "fly under radar" right into enemy territory undetected on your mission?

I'll tell you tomorrow! See you then,
David
PS: have you checked out my software program that lets you practically read a woman's mind? Go to www.ProfileHer.com, you'll be glad you did!

Part VI III: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part VI III: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

So, what did you come up with? How does "the golden rule" reveal a secret of mind control that you can use to seduce women?

If you've been reading every day now, then you'll be prepared for the answer. If not, be sure to go back and read the previous posts in this series.

"The golden rule", that old saying is - "do unto others as you would have them do unto you". Now, this saying embodies great wisdom on a number of levels. But until recently, I hadn't realized that it also contains a secret hidden method of controlling people's minds, and getting what you want from them.

Think about it: what is it that you want from a woman? For a lot of guys, they want sex. For a lot of guys, they want sex, but also some kind of relationship. For this discussion, let's use the sex example because that's what a lot of guys want as an end-result.

So, does "do unto others" mean you should just jump on her and rape her?-of course not. But in what frame of mind do most guys approach wanting sex when they're out with a woman?-from a powerless, practically begging position, or from a fake "I've got game" attitude. But does your "game face" or your begging demeanor jibe with a sexual vibe?

More tomorrow,
David

Part VIII: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part VIII: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

I had a bit of an epiphany recently. An insight into mind control and what makes us humans "tick". I want to share this insight with you right here on this blog.

And before I do, I want you to stop and consider something, and give me your feedback, your input, your thoughts and feelings.

There is an old saying you may have heard. This old saying is very well-known. And, it's my belief that most people have absolutely no inkling whatsoever that this old saying conceals one of the very deepest truths about controlling other people's minds.

You may want to go back right now and re-read parts 1-7 of this series before you consider this, and then come back here and re-read this post.

The old saying that conceals a truth about how you can use seduction, persuasion, influence and mind control techniques with women to get whatever you want is...

"Do unto others as you would have others do unto you".

Now, I already know what the popular, most-widely held interpretation is of this, but that interpretation has nothing to do with mind control.

Can you see the concealed mind-control information in the old saying? Post your thoughts and feelings and feedback and reactions right here on my blog.

More tomorrow, see you then.
David

Part VII: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part VII: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

Continuing in our mind-control theme of the last few days...

Because people tend to live in the past and the future, they tend to respond in the present based on their hopes and dreams, as well as their fears and dreads. This is an advantage to you, the male of our species who's horny and looking to hook up with beautiful women.

But, let me be clear: it's not only for drooling guys looking to score - this is for any guy that wants to be with women on any level, even a strictly platonic level that involves zero sex. Why? Because most guys go around scratching their heads wondering why women act the way they do, and wondering how to "steer" things in the direction you want things to go.

If you want to steer a woman toward being seduced by you and being sexual with you, you'll want to enter into her world and navigate inside of that world. If you just want to be friends, same thing. If you want to just date and see if you like her enough to perhaps get more serious with her, same thing.

And, if you're thinking it's somehow *wrong* to purposefully influence women, you need to wake up and realize that you're going to be influencing her with everything you do and say - so the question becomes, not are you going to influence her, but are you going to do it consciously with a specific goal in mind, or are you going to do it randomly, haphazardly with a fuzzy idea of where you're going?

Tomorrow we'll get into some more specifics about using mind control with women, see you then.
David

Part VI: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part VI: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

Did you find the hidden persuasion and influence info I referred to in my last post?

Here it is: we don't live in the present. Well, at least mostly we don't. You see, most people live in the past and the future. We're steered around by our memories of the past. Our past successes spur us forward, and our past failures haunt us. Our dreams of a brighter future also spur us forward, as do our fear and dread of future events that may or may not happen.

What the heck does this have to do with influence, persuasion, seduction, seducing beautiful women, etc.?

Well, here's the thing: when you realize that people generally "live" in their remembered past and their presupposed future, you gain a lot of leverage. But first you have to really "get" how true this is: look around you and find someone right now, and as you look at that person, you need to recognize that they have memories and they have imagined futures in mind.

This is where your ability to "control their mind" starts.

More tomorrow, see you then.
David

Part V: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part V: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

I admit that at first, due to my *need* to maintain personal integrity, I thought carefully about the idea of using mind-control techniques "on" unsuspecting women.

But you know what? The reality is that we all are always influencing and "controlling people's minds" whether we know it or not. And, usually we don't direct or control this influence on others - in fact, sometimes we cannot control that influence! For example, if you meet someone, and you just by coincidence happen to look like someone they were once in love with, that person is going to partly respond to the actual you, and partly respond to their memory of the person they remember. Just your face alone can influence people, even before you say a word. That means we are influencing people all the time, especially when we do open our mouth and speak words. So, right off the bat, *integrity* is not a problem unless you're just looking to use mind control techniques to fu*k someone over. Like any tool, the use of that tool is completely up to the user. A hammer can build a house to give people shelter, or it could crush someones skull. The hammer is not good or bad, it's just a tool.

In that last paragraph is the key to extremely powerful mind control techniques. Can you find it?

Tomorrow, I'll reveal it. In the meantime, see if you can find the mind control key above. See you tomorrow!
David

Part IV: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part IV: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

I can tell you more later about how I "came upon" the strategy I outlined for you in the last couple of blog posts, but basically I spent a lot of years (and a lot of money, frankly) studying and training with people in the mind control, hypnosis, and persuasion *community*. Much of what they taught me, they also taught with a lot of "use this stuff only for good, and not against other people's will" kind of messages, which I swallowed whole, being an integrity kind-of-guy.

But about 7 years ago, my thinking shifted slightly, and I began to think "hey, what good is all this influence and persuasion and *mind control* training I've taken if I'm not using it to control people's minds??"

In other words, I'd pretty much stuck with using all the techniques I'd learned only in business situations to create win/win outcomes - and with great success. So as I began to think about taking those techniques outside of the business world, the single question I asked myself was "what target group of people should I now *experiment* with?"

And, after thinking about it for like 5 minutes, I realized that it was females that should be the group. So, I began taking all those persuasion/influence/mind control techniques I had used successfully in business, and trying them out on unsuspecting females.

This proved to be even more fun than using these techniques in business!

More tomorrow.... see you then!
David

Part III: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part II: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

So the first step in our mind-control experiment in seducing women is to decide what mental/emotional state you want them to be in. We talked about that yesterday.

So once you've decided, how will you get her "there"?

You'll do it conversationally. I like bringing up common experiences we've all shared that contain those experiences - and specifically the experience we want her to be in right now. I like talking about movies - "have you ever seen...?" and start talking about someone in the movie who was horny, or whatever state of mind I want her to be in.

How hard is that? Pretty easy, really. Try it and let me know how it goes.

More mind control stuff tomorrow.

See you then!
David

Part II: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Part II: Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Because most people don't direct their internal states of feeling and emotion, you are in a position to direct their feelings and emotions for them.

This borders on mind control, if you really stop and think about it: if you have an interaction with some lovely female you'd like to spend more time with, you have a wide-open opportunity to direct her feelings and emotions.

Hey - that brings up a fun question: what feelings and emotions would you like her to feel when she's around you? Desire? Fun? Horniness? Attraction?

Have you ever stopped to ask yourself this question? This opens up a whole new world of opportunity for you! Besides, it also stops all the useless chatter and "crap in your head" like "I wonder if she likes me" "maybe she's out of my league" "she probably already has a boyfriend" and whatever other crap is crossing your mind.

Instead, what should be crossing your mind is "how to I want her to feel around me?".

Well, give me your ideas! Post them right here on this blog.

Tomorrow we'll talk more about how to direct her internal experience - first, decide what you want her internal experience to be!

See you tomorrow,
David

Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women

Persuasion, Influence, Seduction, and Beautiful Women:

As we began discussing yesterday, the great majority of people do not direct their internal state of mind, they don't control their feelings, they don't control their emotions.

Their feelings and state of being and emotional state is a result of random events outside of their control.

This is a huge advantage for you!
You can use this to your advantage in a major way. When you meet and start talking to some lovely woman you'd like to have something with (something is whatever you want - dating, sex, a relationship, whatever...) you should be directing her internal state and emotions!

How to do that. It's very simple. More on this starting tomorrow, see you then.
David

Beautiful Women, Seduction, and the "Ultimate Technique"

Beautiful Women, Seduction, and the "Ultimate Technique"

We guys love the idea of having a technique we can use to get what we want.

Speaking of what we want, a lot of us guys are after sex. No big surprise there. It's just part of the biology and chemistry of being a male, we're typically a pretty horny bunch.

Now, I'm a big fan of getting results without a lot of extra effort and fuss. You? When it comes to getting laid, there are as many approaches to that as there are horny guys - and there's a lot of horny guys out there who want to close the deal with some beautiful, desirable woman (or women).

This blog is a place for the exchange of ideas. Feel free to post what has worked for you. We'll all benefit from your posts.

See you tomorrow,
David

Seduction, Beautiful Women, and a Security Blanket

Seduction, Beautiful Women, and a Security Blanket:

It is nice to have a crutch - drink some alcohol and lose your inhibitions, or learn some great pick up lines, or have a wingman - all so you can be comfortable and confident in picking up women, meeting women, asking for a date, getting a telephone number, working on seducing a woman to bed - whatever you're trying to accomplish.

But take the crutch away, and you're left with - what? What are you left with?

At the end of the day, crutches are just that, but what if you're out there, see a beautiful woman you want to meet / date / seduce / whatever, and you don't have your wingman, pick up lines, or a bottle of alcohol handy?

What do you do then?

See you tomorrow.
David

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women, Super Confidence... and Guitar Strings??

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women, Super Confidence... and Guitar Strings??

There is no such thing as confidence. That is, confidence is not a thing we can pass around like we can pass around a bottle of tequila. Of course, a lot of guys do use alcohol as their confidence crutch. But overall you're better off if you can develop your super confidence with women without alcohol.

Why? Simple - because you might not be drunk every time you see a woman you want to approach! For example, when I'm in my favorite supermarket filled with beautiful women I want to meet and seduce, I'm not drunk at the time.

Anyway, confidence is like a guitar string. Now, maybe you don't play guitar, but if you ever have played a guitar or seen someone play, you know that guitar strings go out of tune and have to be tuned up, right? You don't just tune them once and they're tuned forever, true?

Super confidence with women is a lot like guitar strings - you've got to tune 'em up!

More tomorrow, see you then.
David

Can You Handle The Ugly Truth About Dating, Seduction, and Approaching Beautiful Women?

Can You Handle The Ugly Truth About Dating, Seduction, and Approaching Beautiful Women?

Last night I was talking with a colleague of mine. Like me, he's an expert on influence and persuasion. He made a comment that you'll find shocking and it's something I've been saying all along (for example, I'm on record in my book "Super Confidence With Women" as having said this repeatedly).

It's an ugly truth you may not be ready for because when it comes to meeting, approaching and dating beautiful women - and seducing women and seduction in general - you are being LIED to out there. Do you want to know what that ugly lie is?

I'm 100% aware of the "community" of PUA's (*pick up artists*), the seduction technology people, the get women with hypnosis people - you get the picture - there are a lot of people who want to help you *solve your problem*, and they are responsible for propagating a complete lie.

Do you want to know exactly what they're telling you that is a complete lie?

I'll tell you tomorrow, but you're probably not ready for this! Tune in tomorrow only if you think you can handle the ugly truth!
David

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women... and Grandpa Simpson??

Dating, Seduction, Beautiful Women... and Grandpa Simpson??

How does Grandpa Simpson figure in to this equation? Or even that sentence??

There's an episode of The Simpsons where Grandpa Simpson becomes smitten with a new resident at the retirement home. He wants to ask her out, and when he gets his chance, he bumbles and mumbles trying to ask her out. After a few botched lines he mutters to himself, "This just never gets any easier, does it?!!"

As in much of the humor on that smash-hit show, there is an underlying truth: most guys never get over that nervousness, hesitation, awkwardness and fear. Can you imagine being, like, 70 years old and you've never gotten over that? And hey, sorry to hit you with this, but when you're 70 you had better be pretty darn rich if you expect to land any young beautiful women!

So with all that in mind, are you now going to start taking this seriously? Taking what seriously, you ask? Taking seriously what I've been harping on almost all last week - you have GOT to get out there, approach a few women, and be painfully aware of all the fear triggers you have.

More importantly, you have got to uncover exactly what form those fear triggers take - what do you say to yourself, picture in your head before you feel that fear feeling? You will never develop the ability to have confidence around women otherwise, and no amount of pick up artist techniques or seduction science is going to make the difference - just ask Grandpa Simpson!

See you tomorrow,
David