How to Get a Girl to Like You With NLP: Does It REALLY Work?

SECRETS OF NLP INFLUENCE TECHNIQUES:

I've been training in NLP since 1991, and I was certified as an NLP trainer in 1996.

I've taught NLP to groups, and I've done one-on-one changework using both NLP and hypnosis.

I might know a thing or two about NLP that can help you :-)

NLP is extremely powerful and can easily be used in dating and seduction contexts. As a matter of fact, 99.7% of the books and trainings teaching NLP skills and techniques are completely devoid of context!

The remaining 0.3% are mostly about sales, marketing, education and business applications of NLP. In the "NLP community" (and don't get me wrong, I LOVE NLP!) most of the trainers think that we who apply NLP to dating and seduction contexts are either sleazy, or lacking in morals and integrity.

Sure, NLP is extremely powerful, but it's also not – repeat NOT – the magic mind-control techniques some would lead you to believe.

All that being said, let's get to the heart of this article: how to USE secrets of NLP influence techniques.

The main thing to understand about using NLP to influence another human being – such as, oh, I don't know… WOMEN! – is the fact that all of us have memories of the past.

Many of those memories have some kind of emotion attached to them. In fact, the things people remember most are the most emotion-heavy experiences.

Think back on your most memorable moments and you'll likely find that the things you most remember have strong emotions attached to them – first love, first sex, accomplishing something great, winning an important contest or sports event – the more you remember it, the stronger the emotion.

So, how does this apply to you being able to influence a woman? Well, hopefully you've put two and two together already and have realized it's about tapping into memories she has – memories that have some strong emotion attached to it.

You can use "normal conversation" to bring those memories to the front of her mind. I know I know, you want examples, so here at ADI we don't disappoint you!

Asking simple conversational questions like "what's the most wild experience you've ever had?" or "when was the first time you feel head over heels for a guy?" or "what's the most fun vacation you ever went on?"

See how that works?

Now, those who are new to NLP almost always feel like they're "being obvious" and that she'll somehow know you're "probing her mind" and eliciting states in her… wrong, wrong, wrong! 99.999999% of the time, you won't get "busted" like you think, your questions will fly under her radar. In fact, she'll really enjoy talking about fun, exciting experiences she's had!

You know what? If there's one thing chicks hate, it's being bored. She's going to LOVE talking about those titillating experiences!

Here's how to use NLP techniques to clear out negative beliefs that hold you back: