NLP Seduction

NLP seduction techniques really work. NLP is not magic, but the results you can get sometimes seem almost magical.

Here are a few tips to use NLP in a seduction context - these are tips that I've used and that really work well.

NLP Seduction Tip #1

NLP teaches matching and mirroring techniques called "rapport skills. The idea is that "people like people who are like themselves" - and rapport techniques really do work in the real world when used for seduction purposes.

NLP teaches how to match and mirror various aspects of another person's observable nonverbal behavior such as posture, gestures, voice pitch and tone and volume, and facial expressions.

When you match her, just shoot for about 80%, don't try to look and sound exactly like her.

One of the most powerful things you can match is breathing rate.

This is far below anyone's conscious ability to notice you matching, and talk about magical - matching breathing rate puts you "into rhythm" with her, literally.

Very, very powerful tip - speaking when she's breathing out which allows you to match her breathing even when you're having conversation.

This all by itself can go 90% of the way to getting her to have very, very good feelings about you.

NLP Seduction Tip #2:

In NLP, we call it "metaphor" but it's easier to understand if we call it "telling stories".

Telling stories is an extremely powerful NLP seduction technique because you can lead her into the states you want her to be feeling quickly and easily - and unobtrusively - just by telling stories.

Tell stories that lead her into the state you want her in - stories that create curiosity, fascination, connection, attraction, desire, feeling sexually aroused - those kinds of states.

Metaphor works best if you've already established rapport first, and is very easy to introduce into conversation by framing it as "I saw a movie where..." or "I saw a TV show where..." and then tell the story that takes her to the states of mind you want her to be in.

NLP Seduction Tip #3:

Utilizing "strategies": in NLP we use what's called "strategies" to achieve our outcomes. In this case to use strategies as NLP seduction technique, you must first memorize the NLP eye pattern chart.

Then, you're just looking for her eye patterns and which modalities (visual, auditory and kinesthetic mostly) that she uses and in what sequence.

Look for patterns, then match your language to her eye patterns. If you see a lot of Visual > Auditory Digital > Kinesthetic eye patterns repeated, you match your language - "You can see that if you talk to yourself about how you feel when you..."

NLP Seduction Tip #4:

If you think you might want to start a relationship with her, get her values by asking "what's important to you in a relationship?".

Because values are mostly unconscious, listen closely but then when she runs out of things to say, just change the subject.

Bring it back up on the next date with her and then ask her what the #1 most important thing is to her in a relationship.

Then ask "so what comes after that as being most important to you in a relationship?".

Knowing her top 3 or top 5 values will tell you what she'll act like in a relationship which is good to know ahead of time.

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