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OUR FAVORITE PICK UP STRATEGY: THE COFFEE SHOP METHOD When it comes to picking up women, we here at the Advanced Dating Institute don't have the time to memorize a bunch of pick up lines and complex strategies. We believe that "brain-dead simple" is the way to go – for one thing, if you're sitting around memorizing scripts and practicing pick up lines, then you're not out meeting women, right? And for another thing, we think that women can spot phony pick up lines and rehearsed scripts a mile away and will think you're an idiot for using that crap. So here's your brain-dead simple strategy for picking up hot women: We call this "the coffee shop method" but this method can be adapted to other locations too. We just happen to like our coffee – and we've noticed that a lot of hot babes hang out at coffee shops alone, just the way we like 'em, because that way they're much less defensive about you going up to them. Okay, here's what you do: go to a coffee shop at a time when it's very busy so that all the tables are full and you'll have nowhere to sit. When you arrive, look around for a hot babe or two, or at least someone that strikes you as a little cute – don't be all obvious about it when you're scoping out the babes, be subtle and don't tip your hand. Then go get yourself a latte or a chai tea or whatever over-priced drink you want to get. Now walk around the place looking like you're looking for a place to sit, hover for a second at the hot babes table and say this "excuse me, can I sit here for a minute and finish my coffee because there's no tables available?" Say it just like that – you can alter that phrase as you like so that it sounds smooth. Go ahead and say it several times out loud right now. IMPORTANT: be sure you use the word "because" when you ask to sit down – the word because will increase your chances of her saying yes. Research has been done on this and it's been proven to be true. Next step of the coffee shop pick up strategy: engage her in casual conversation by asking her simple questions. Keep this brain-dead simple – ask her if she saw that TV show last night, or the latest popular movie, or whatever. If she's reading a book or magazine, ask her about that. Don't over-think what to say; just sit down and relax and have a chat. If you don't like her or she's just a cold person you wouldn't want to get to know anyway, you can get up and leave by saying thanks and just leaving. If you do like her, say this: "Because I have to go now, how about you give me your phone number and we can meet for coffee sometime?" and get her number and take off. Never have approach fear ever again - here's how to do it starting right now:
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