Picking Up Women

Picking up women - here's the success advice no one ever gave you!

We know there's no shortage of advice out there when it comes to picking up women, but we're going to give the advice your father should have given you.

If you're nervous about picking up women, that's natural. Anything you do for the first time is going to be uncomfortable to one degree or another.

And let's face it, picking up women can be very uncomfortable for guys because a lot of guys lack confidence and have fear of rejection.

So let's address that first thing and get that solved.

My analogy for overcoming approach anxiety is "monsters under your bed".

When you were younger, you might have been afraid of the dark, or thought that monsters were hiding in your closet or under your bed.

Many young children fear that there are monsters hiding under their bed, but as we grow older, we learn from our direct experience that there's no monsters under the bed, and nothing to be afraid of.

But, if you try to tell a child that there's no monsters under the bed, and even show them, when the lights go out they become fearful again and hide under the blankets for protection.

So I can tell you until I'm blue in the face that there's absolutely no reason to be afraid of approaching or picking up women, but you have to have the direct experience and "grow up" yourself - so here's how to do that as quickly as possible:

What you should do is go to a nearby town or city that is not your local area that you normally shop or hang out.

Make this a "day trip" on a weekend like a Saturday and either pack a lunch or be prepared to buy some lunch there. Go alone. Do NOT take a friend with you.

Target a location that has lots and lots of retail stores like bookstores, coffee shops, and tons of other retail outlets where people will be out shopping.

What you're going to do is walk around and have small, innocent, harmless interactions with as many girls as possible.

You might resist this due to fear, but I want you to just "buck up" and do this anyway.

The harmless innocent interactions will be the following - you'll walk up to various different girls over the course of that Saturday and ask questions, such as:

Ask her what time it is.
Ask her if she can recommend a good nearby restaurant.
Ask her where the post office is.
Ask her where the nearest coffee shop is.
Ask her where the public library is.

See, you're not really "from" this area, as it were, so you're asking innocent and valid questions.

Do this for a few Saturdays in a row, and you'll quickly discover that there's "no monsters hiding under the bed" and nothing to fear when it comes to approaching and picking up women!

Plus, you might actually end up meeting some nice girls you want to date!

After your fear goes away, now you can do the same thing in your local area, using similar questions, too meet girls you want to meet.

After she gives you the time or directions or whatever, you can be cute and say "I actually already know where that is, I just wanted to meet you (she'll laugh) and then say "I'd like to get your phone number so we can meet for coffee or lunch sometime".

This way, you've not only gotten over your fear of picking up women, but you also have a foolproof method to start a conversation or get their phone number.

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