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SEDUCING AND SEDUCTION – MASTERING THE BASICS When it comes to seducing women, you need to be in a seductive mood. Your attitude and demeanor is the single most important aspect to seduction. Let's explore exactly how and why this is true: First, it's natural for people to be highly influenced by the moods of others. If you doubt this is true, what happens to your outlook and mood when the person sitting next to you at work or school is in a bad mood? Or how about when someone gets in your face? Your moods are highly influenced by those around you, no doubt about it. It's exactly the same with seduction and when you want to seduce a woman – your mood and attitude is critical. So when you're standing next to some lovely lass in the grocery store line, should you start flashing your bedroom eyes at her? Well, maybe: for most women, that's just too much too soon – it's like you haven't even got the fish on the hook and you're already reeling in your line. There usually has to be a step or three in between "hello" and turning on your seduction vibe. We suggest the following steps: Start with easy, light conversation laced with some humor. Then, move onto some talk of sex, attraction or similar topics – how to do that?—easy! Just start talking about some article you read, or TV program you saw, or some scene in a movie: "hey, that reminds me, did you ever see that movie called "Kitty's Adventure" where the actress Julia Hotty falls in love with Brad Pitt and they're like making out and…" In other words, move gradually into those kinds of subjects, don't yank on the fishing line too hard or it'll snap and you'll lose the fish altogether. But here's the key: while you're talking about some sappy chick flick to get her to identify with feelings of attraction and being seduced by some hot male actor she's probably finds attractive, you want to get yourself into the mood you want her to be in. Always remember this: wherever you want to lead her, you've got to go there first. That means you can't sit there feeling nowhere near anything sexy or seductive and expect her to get there by herself. So the bottom line here is that you want to lead her with your words, but especially your mood and your attitude. Happy fishing! – er, seducing! Discover the secrets of controlling your mood and attitude here:
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